When a loved one passes away in North Carolina, the person named to settle the estate — called the personal representative (PR) — steps into a demanding fiduciary role. Every bill paid, asset sold, or fee approved must align with state law. This article gives PRs a clear, simple road map that helps them figure out what costs are covered by the estate, how to pay for them, and the right way to ask for reimbursement. By following this guidance, you protect yourself from liability and preserve the value intended for beneficiaries.
When someone dies, their estate goes through a complicated administrative process that costs a lot of money. Whether you’re an executor, personal representative, or beneficiary, it’s important to know what an estate expense is and who is responsible for paying for it. Let’s take a look at this often-confusing subject to help you understand what you need to know.
What Are Estate Expenses?
To put it bluntly, administering an estate is expensive. The bills can add up quickly when you add up property maintenance, possible legal fees, and memorial costs. When someone dies, there are costs that come up during the settlement process. These are called estate expenses.
These expenses typically fall into five main categories:
- Last debts
- Property maintenance/management expenses
- Distribution expenses
- Professional fees
- Taxes
Let’s examine each category in detail to help you navigate this challenging process.
The 5 Main Categories of Estate Expenses
1. Last Debts
These are expenses and obligations the deceased person had at the time of death
- Final Medical Bills: Any outstanding healthcare costs not covered by insurance
- Credit Card Balances: Outstanding credit card debt
- Utility Bills: Final payments for electricity, water, etc.
- Funeral & Burial Expenses: Costs for services, burial plots, cremation, caskets, etc.
- Memorial Expenses: Religious services, funeral meals, and other commemorative costs
It’s important to know that in most places, funeral costs are seen as a priority claim. What is “reasonable” depends on how much money is in the estate and what the person who died wanted. Usually, funeral costs can be deducted from an estate’s taxes. However, if a family member or a charity (like the Veterans Administration) pays for the funeral, the estate will not be able to deduct these costs.
2. Property Maintenance/Management Expenses
The estate must maintain any property until it’s sold or distributed:
- Carrying Costs of Assets: Property taxes, security systems, insurance, lawn mowing, etc.
- Closing Costs on Property Sales: Realtor’s commissions, title company fees, title insurance
- Investment Management Fees: Costs for managing stocks, bonds, and other investments
- Appraisal Fees: Determining fair market value of property
- Cleaning and Moving Costs: Clearing out the deceased’s home
- Junk Removal: Disposal of personal items without monetary or sentimental value
As the executor, it’s your job to take care of the property and sell or give it away at the end, so these costs should usually come from the estate.
3. Distribution Expenses
These costs arise when distributing assets to beneficiaries:
- Shipping of Tangible Property: Moving furniture, artwork, vehicles to beneficiaries
- Transportation Costs: Mileage, flights for the executor handling estate business
- Postage: Mailings related to estate documents and communication
- Fiduciary Commissions: Executor’s compensation (typically around 3.5% of estate value)
- Probate/Court Filing Fees: Can range from $50 to over $1,200 depending on jurisdiction
- Notary Fees/Medallion Signature Guarantees: For document authentication
- Death Certificate Copies: Needed for various administrative processes
4. Professional Fees
Most estates require professional assistance:
- Legal Fees: Attorney costs for estate administration ($5,000-$50,000 for average estates)
- Accounting Fees: For tax return preparation and financial advice
- Appraisal Fees: Professional valuation of assets
5. Taxes
The estate must handle several types of tax obligations:
- Estate Tax: A federal tax on estates worth over $13.99 million (2025 threshold)
- Inheritance Tax: Paid by beneficiaries in certain states
- Individual Income Tax: Final personal tax return for the deceased
- Estate Income Tax: If the estate generates more than $600 in gross income (Form 1041)
Who Pays Estate Expenses?
Most estate expenses are paid from the estate itself before any distribution to beneficiaries. The executor is responsible for prioritizing these payments according to state law.
Expenses Paid by the Estate
The estate typically covers:
- Outstanding debts (credit cards, medical bills, liens)
- Property maintenance costs
- Professional fees (executor, attorneys, accountants)
- Taxes (income, estate, property)
- Funeral and burial expenses
- Administrative costs (court fees, appraisals, etc.)
Expenses Paid by Beneficiaries
Beneficiaries might be responsible for:
- Final expenses not covered by the estate or life insurance
- Personal travel expenses (like attending the funeral)
- Legal fees if they contest the will
- Property improvements (beyond basic maintenance)
- Inheritance taxes in some states
Tax Deductibility of Estate Expenses
Many estate expenses are tax-deductible, which can reduce the overall tax burden:
The IRS allows deductions for:
- Fees paid to the fiduciary for administering the estate
- Attorney, accountant, and return preparer fees
- Expenses for property management and maintenance
- Expenses related to tax determinations and collections
An important note: these deductions can be claimed either on the estate tax return OR the estate income tax return, but not both.
What Happens When Estate Funds Are Insufficient?
When an estate’s debts exceed its assets (an insolvent estate), expenses are paid in a specific order of priority:
- Administrative costs (executor and attorney fees)
- Funeral expenses and taxes
- Secured debts (like mortgages)
- Unsecured debts (credit cards, personal loans)
If the estate runs out of money, creditors at the bottom of the priority list may not be paid in full.
Tips for Executors Managing Estate Expenses
If you’re serving as an executor, here are some practical tips:
- Keep meticulous records of all expenses and receipts
- Establish a separate estate bank account to pay expenses
- Consult with professionals (attorney, accountant) to ensure you’re paying expenses properly
- Communicate clearly with beneficiaries about how expenses are being handled
- Be aware of timelines for filing tax returns and paying creditors
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Some frequent errors when handling estate expenses include:
- Paying bills in the wrong order of priority
- Distributing assets to beneficiaries before paying all debts
- Using estate funds for expenses that should be paid by beneficiaries
- Failing to file necessary tax returns
- Not keeping proper documentation of expenses
Final Thoughts
Managing estate expenses can be overwhelming, especially during a time of grief. The process is often more complex than people realize, with numerous financial and legal obligations to fulfill.
Remember that while most estate expenses are covered by the estate itself, beneficiaries may have to shoulder some costs depending on the circumstances. When in doubt, consult with a qualified estate attorney or financial advisor who can guide you through this complicated process.
By understanding who pays what, you can navigate estate settlement more efficiently and avoid costly mistakes that might deplete the estate’s value or create legal complications.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I pay for funeral expenses out-of-pocket and be reimbursed by the estate?
Yes, it’s common for family members to pay funeral costs upfront and seek reimbursement later. Keep all receipts and documentation.
Are executor fees taxable income?
Yes, executor fees are considered taxable income and must be reported on your personal tax return.
What happens if I use estate funds to pay for something that isn’t an allowable expense?
As an executor, you could be held personally liable for misusing estate funds. Always consult with an attorney if you’re unsure about a particular expense.
Can beneficiaries challenge estate expenses?
Yes, beneficiaries have the right to review financial records showing how estate expenses are paid and can challenge expenses they believe are improper or excessive.
How long do I have to pay a deceased person’s debts?
This varies by state, but creditors typically have a limited time (often 3-6 months) to make claims against the estate after being notified of the death.
Remember, every estate is unique, and state laws vary significantly. When in doubt, seeking professional guidance is always the wisest course of action.
Common Mistakes That Trigger Liability
- Using personal funds and seeking reimbursement later. Always pay with estate checks to keep records clear.
- Paying unsecured creditors too soon. Wait until higher-priority claims are satisfied.
- Commingling estate and personal money. Separate accounts are mandatory.
- Ignoring safe-deposit boxes. Inventory the items within the legal time limit to avoid claims of missing property
- Failing to publish notice to creditors. Without notice, the claims period never closes.
A tidy record file makes final accounting painless. Use this checklist:
- Certified copies of Letters Testamentary or Administration.
- Dated inventory with asset descriptions and fair market values.
- Bank statements, canceled checks, and deposit slips.
- Receipts for maintenance (utilities, lawn care, repairs).
- Invoices for professional services with proof of payment.
- Sold-asset closing statements (real estate, vehicles, securities).
- Copy of published creditor notice and proof of publication dates.
- Tax returns filed and copies of any tax correspondence.
- Keep track of all your spending by scanning or taking a picture of your receipts as soon as you get them.
- Match to Priority Class—Write down the legal category of each expense.
- Pay from Estate Account—Only use checks or wire transfers that are linked to the estate account.
- Note the Deal: Write down the amount, date, payee, and reason for the deal in your ledger.
- Every month, reconcile your bank statements with your ledger to find mistakes quickly.
- Prepare Interim Account (Optional): If the estate lasts longer than a year, file a statement of receipts and disbursements and ask for a portion of the commission to be paid.
- Put in your final account and include a request for commission and attorney fees.
- Get Clerk Approval—Wait for an order to be signed before writing checks to professionals or yourself for reimbursement.
- Distribute Residue: Pay the heirs once the court has approved the costs, claims, and fees.
- Keep records—Keep estate papers for at least three years in case questions come up.
Deep Dive: Administrative Costs
Administrative costs sit at the top for a reason: without them, the estate cannot function. Typical items include:
- Filing fees for petitions, inventories, and accountings.
- Certified mail postage for statutory notices.
- Recording fees for transfers, releases, or satisfaction of liens.
- Premiums for the PR’s bond, if required.
- Bank service charges on the dedicated estate account.
- When they keep records in order, accounting or case management software subscriptions
Pay these costs promptly from estate funds. Retain receipts and canceled checks; the clerk will require proof during account review.